NEWS

By DA FRONT PORCH

We've all heard the saying, "Dating isn't cheap." But what happens when the person across the table acts like they're on a shopping spree instead of getting to know you?

Picture this: she's on her phone most of the night, complains about everything, barely asks you a question, and seems more interested in the menu than the conversation. Then, just when you think the check is coming, she orders extra meals to go—for her family at home—expecting you to cover those too.

So, is the guy wrong for ending the date and paying only for his own meal?

Not necessarily.

Dating is about respect, effort, and seeing if there's a connection. No one is entitled to another person's money simply because they accepted an invitation. If one person is clearly disengaged and treating the other like an ATM, it's reasonable to politely end the evening.

That doesn't mean making a scene. A simple, respectful response like, "I don't think we're connecting, so I'm going to pay for my meal and call it a night," sets a healthy boundary without unnecessary drama.

Good manners go both ways. Whether you're a man or a woman, showing gratitude, being present, and respecting the other person's time matters. The bill shouldn't become a test of someone's worth or generosity.

DA FRONT PORCH Take: Paying for a date is a kind gesture—not a contract. If the respect isn't mutual, there's nothing wrong with ending the evening and moving on.